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(Verse 1)
Mama was soft-spoken, but she wasn’t soft
Like a quiet storm moving through a hayloft
She was calloused in the ways that a hard life makes
Seen enough patterns, seen enough fakes
She didn't have a lot of sugar for my tongue
Not a lot of lullabies that ever got sung
But she looked at me once, barely raised her head:
“If you let ’em walk on you…”—then she paused and said—
“You let ’em step and you let ’em tread…
You’re no better than the mat by the door,” she said.
(Pre-Chorus)
It wasn’t a hug, it wasn’t a kiss
But I’m sure glad she gave me a lesson like this!
(Chorus)
I’m not your doormat, don’t wipe your feet
Don’t drag your mess in off the street
Don’t drop your problems and call it love
I ain’t your landing pad, I’ve had enough!
I can be kind, yeah I can be sweet
But I’m not where you come to clean your feet
Mama said it soft, but it stuck like lead—
“I didn’t raise you to be walked on,” she said.
(Verse 2)
Looking back now, yeah I see the view
From the floor where everyone is walking through
A revolving door and a worn-out floor
People takin’ more and then askin’ for more
Maybe they got demons, maybe they don't know
That their tracks are muddying up the show
But I was standing there with my "Open" sign
Thinking patience was a virtue every single time.
(Pre-Chorus)
She wasn't warm, but she was right
And now I’m keeping my own light bright!
(Chorus)
I’m not your doormat, don’t wipe your feet
Don’t drag your chaos in here with me
Don’t say you’re sorry then do it again
I ain’t your practice round, I ain’t your “when”
I can forgive, I just won’t stay
For somebody who keeps walkin’ away
Mama said it soft, but it stuck like lead—
“I didn’t raise you to be walked on,” she said.
(Bridge)
It’s a cycle of sadness, it’s a wheel that turns
People do it to each other while the spirit burns
But the door is locked and the bolt is thrown
And I’m the best thing I’ve ever known!
(Final Chorus)
I’m not your doormat, find another floor
I don’t live down on the level anymore
You don’t get access just ’cause I’m nice
Kind doesn’t mean I’ll pay your price
I’ve got a spine and I finally use it
And peace of mind—I’m not gonna lose it
Mama didn’t say much, but what she said—
Still echoes sweet inside my head.
(Outro)
No more "sure," when I mean "no"
I'm way too cute to be treated so low!
Yeah, you keep your mud and you keep your floor
'Cause I'm not being your doormat...
Nope! Not today, not tomorrow,
Not even on a "Maybe" Monday!
I’m picking up my heart and I’m on my way.